Years ago, I found myself a mother of young children and feeling depleted of my self-esteem and I went looking for a place online that could help me overcome my insecurities. I made the mistake of turning to Facebook and Instagram… and Guess What happened? I ended up feeling worse. I was at a low point in my life So I stopped participating in social media altogether. I essentially went on an almost 2 year fast from posting or paying attention the social cyber world. It made all the difference. I turned that energy into learning as much as I could about relationships, intimacy and how I could heal myself. I started to become more confident and my self worth has been restored. I realized that learning and growing What is the answer to my question of how to increase myself worth. I didn’t want to contribute to another person feeling bad about themselves while seeking for social connections online.
So I set out to create this community for women like me. And after meeting with several clients and speaking with close friends, I realized how many of us struggle to find the answers and encouragement we need. We are constantly comparing ourselves to an impossible ideal that is blasted in front of us on social media platforms. As they say, we are constantly comparing our worst days to an influencer's best day. I am here to tell you what a facade it is. I want to do better than that.
In my community, my goal is to Empower women to become the best version of themselves, to explore their desires and instill confidence as they learn more about who they truly are. I want to create a community of people who support each other, lift each other up and cheer each other on. Because we need each other. And we need each other as our best selves! This will be a place that you may learn something new but more importantly you can feel a part of something and be uplifted.
As a woman, I'm going to tell you that learning is not the hard part! It is unlearning! We need to unlearn what society, culture, religion, and even family has programmed us to believe about ourselves. I believe that we need to let go of many of the resentments that we are holding onto in order to make room for more sustaining and more beautiful experiences and relationships in our lives. So I hope you'll join me on my journey as I try to add value to yours.